Bridesmaid Hair

This coming Sunday my best friend is getting married. I have the honor of standing next to her as she says her vows, holding her bouquet, fluffing her dress, and so on!
Bridesmaid-y things.

I'll be having my hair professionally styled that morning as all of us girls get ready together, and I am trying to decide how to ask them to do my hair (not that anyone will really be looking at me, though!)

This pretty, low chignon is an up-do I have been admiring, and I think it would work well with my shoulder length hair.  

by Kate at The Small Things

by Kate at The Small Things

I also really like this messy french twist, but I am afraid that if I requested it, it would turn out a bit too stiff and polished. 

What do you think? Which style do you like more?